A decade of togetherness !

Oct 1st, 1998
A date I will never forget in my entire life. That was the day when my life actually took a U-turn and an entirely new phase began. It was the day I met my dearest husband for the first time.

Well, first impressions first, my best friend, who was by my side during the formal gathering, thought he was FAT ! and indeed he was(he was on the healthier side,...hehe), but I just fell flat for his shining dimples on either cheeks. The charming 22 year old dude in formals was more than I could ask for at that moment. I was just smitten with his brooding sexiness and exuding charm.The first impression was definitely the best one, and nothing else could change it forever.

The next day, when he asked my semi-hitler Dad to actually take me out for some "Quality Time together", everyone in the family were literally shaking with fear at his fearlesness, but I was just even more smitten. Anyway, when dad said "YES", I was half-expecting a "Knight in Shining Armour" riding his horse.... but here he was, driving a Honda, a borrowed one at that too(He wasn't residing in my home-town then, which explains why he had to borrow his friend's vehicle). Well, I wasn't too sure about how he wanted to impress me on that bike, but little did I realize that the journey with my wonderful hubby has started at a slow yet firm pace !



After some random ramblings and people waiting for me to actually turn into a major, 2.5 years just flew. Amidst all those silly fights and sweet-nothings over the phone, we eventually grew together as a couple.



After much waiting, here came the most anticipated day, our wedding day!
10th of May, 2001.
I was this not-so-blushing bride, fully adorned with jewllery and him by my side. I just couldn't be quiet and was chatting non-stop with him even on the wedding platform. Maybe, I couldn't understand why I should try to pretend that am blushing, when I already knew him for about 2.5 years. I was just bedazzled with his French beard and the formal suit he wore. After some 12 hours of non-stop hindu rituals, we were anything but tired. We were literally surprised with the amount of energy both of us possessed despite the gruelling pujas and homams. But, yeah ! I have to mention that I couldn't get over the hangover of the marriage so easily. I still literally could hear the sounds of the "Shehnai" even while travelling in the train.

Post-marriage, we never actually had an official honeymoon, because of my college. However, as a sweet gesture, my in-laws gifted us a honeymoon suite for 3 days at a resort in Hyderabad, where the journey of a "man and woman" actually started.


Since I was still in college, it was decided that I stay with my parents and complete my B.tech. This arrangement worked fine for us, in fact, should say that its the best decision I ever took. I admit that both of us found it very tough staying apart, though we were very much married. There were countless nights where my pillow used to get wet, and when I used to get tempted to leave the whole thing, and just run away to my dearest hubby( who was patiently waiting for my education to be complete). But, I really thank God for letting me have the perseverance and the determination to let me stay apart from him for the sake of my education. It really made a lot of difference to all of us. However, everything has it pros and cons. We really never got time to spend "Quality couple-time" due to my gruelling schedules and constant exams.


And the rest of the story is known to everyone. 2004 marked my entry into motherhood. The same year, I graduated as an engineer as well as a mother. Life was never the same after that. My younger one followed suit, and life just got busier and happier.




Now, as I realize that it's a decade earlier I met my husband, I feel so enthralled at the amount of time. 10 years !! Isnt it a long time for a couple to actually grow into each other, and to actually understand each other, without having to say everything at all times ? Sometimes, its just the eyes which say everything.I keep humming "You say it best when you say nothing at all !" Of course, it will be silly of me if I say that we never fight... but its just that, we are more accustomed to each other's moods and temper.So, even a strong argument just doesn't stay more than is required. But the journey isn't definitely over, and I hope to get to know my husband even better with each passing day.

Love you lots, my jaan ! Happy 10th Anniversary.